#DONT CALL ME UP 10 HOURS SERIES#

There is one defining moment in every relationship that determines if it will last, or if you will be left heartbroken, At some point, he will ask himself: Is this the woman I want to commit myself to? The answer will determine whether the relationship deepens or ends. I hope this article helped you better understand why a guy sometimes wonвЂ™t call. Or I would have continued to pine for my ex, tenaciously clinging to the notion that itвЂ™s impossible to find, and keep, a decent guy in this city where everyone always seems to be on the prowl for the next best thing. Had I never called J, I probably would have spent many more months wallowing in self-pity thinking that there was something about me that just wasnвЂ™t good enough, at least in his eyes. I also learned that a little bit of confidence and courage can go a long way when it comes to getting what you want. For one, it taught me not to take things so personally and not to think the worst of myself because some guy didnвЂ™t call. The reason I felt compelled to share this story is that it taught me a lot. And just because something started out going in one direction it doesnвЂ™t mean you canвЂ™t take control and reroute. Feelings are complicated, I mean you can be totally hot for someone one minute and totally turned off the next. He was definitely into me the night we met, then after he wasnвЂ™t into me, but then my calling him sent him back to being into me, the point is, itвЂ™s never cut and dry.

Maybe he was drunker than I thought and was afraid he had his beer goggles on? Maybe he was just looking to get laid that night and didnвЂ™t feel the need to continue to pursue me when that didnвЂ™t happen? Maybe he just wasnвЂ™t that into me at first but my boldness, and subsequent cool-ness about the whole thing changed his mind? (According to the guy friends IвЂ™ve spoken to, these theories are the most likely.)

So why didnвЂ™t he call me after we first met? And why did he act like such an ass when I called him, only to change his tune 5 minutes later? I gave these questions quite a bit of thought. We dated for a few months, it never got serious, but I did have fun and I truly enjoyed the time we spent together. There was no doubt in my mind that IвЂ™d be hearing from him again and I was right. By 7 pm I had two choices: resign myself to the fact that he isnвЂ™t into me, or do something I had never, ever done before- call him.Дeducing that I had nothing to lose, I decided to go with the latter because he was cute and funny and he gave me butterflies in my stomach which no one had done since my ex and I had been incapable of feeling anything for anyone after my ex and now I finally had feelings again and feelings donвЂ™t come around every day so I wasnвЂ™t gonna let this go so easily. Then Thursday came around and still no word. I wasnвЂ™t expecting a call on Monday or Tuesday because of the вЂrulesвЂ™ and all that, but by Wednesday night I started to feel a little panicked. We exchanged numbers, kissed, said our goodbyes, and I left feeling quite pleased with myself, knowing that I had played my cards right. Our afternoon of fun turned into a night out and me, my friend, J, and his friend bar-hopped, talked, laughed, danced, and played pool until the wee hours.Д«efore heading home, J and I planned a date for that Thursday. He was cute, charming, and we seriously hit it off right away. Then you.I met up with a friend one Saturday afternoon at a bar for a football game. вЂњJust for evacuations, got it?вЂќ He barked out, firing at Maximoff yet again and dodging the red blasts as they came his way. Tony hated the prospect, butвЂ¦he didnвЂ™t have any other alternatives. MaximoffвЂ™s rampage meant he had to keep her attention to distract her from his people, and the Iron Legion were dropping like flies and he didnвЂ™t know what to do-Д«ut even as he started, Tony watched as the familiar red and blue figure swept in just in time to get one of his staff members off the precarious rooftop and onto solid ground. Even if he was drawing a blank as to how, and as every second ticked by he couldnвЂ™t help the helplessness he felt as the SWORD volunteers over the comms were screaming about evacuation and limited escape routes and structural integrity and dammit he was freaking out again. Tony clenched his jaw and ignored the sinking feeling in the pit of his stomach as the giant continued decimating the Iron Legion.

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